Q. Recently a friend and I were discussing The Brain Program. She said it was one thing to believe strongly in something but quite another to spend your time flying around the country lecturing. I’ve always respected this woman and don’t quite know what to do with her comment.

A. Why do you need to do anything? Her statements simply reflect her brain’s opinion; one that she is entirely entitled to possess. I hazard to guess that many individuals have allowed aspects of their lives to be stiffled by the comments of others.

You cannot control another brain’s opinion (nor would it be advisable to try). You can control your own choices and beliefs. If your opinion matches that of your friend, fine. If not, then step to your own drummer, and do it right smartly!